A Girl's Diary
When I first met him, I had no idea that we would come this far. In the beginning, he was a mere acquaintence. But gradually we became friends, and ultimately, best friends. He seemed to stop there. But I involuntarily went upto the next stage, I fell for my best friend. But that wasn't completely my fault. He was so good to me always. He used to say all those sweet things to me. The immature love deprived teenager inside me took these as signs. I accepted that I loved him and at the same time, convinced myself that he loves me too. I started behaving in a different manner. I stepped out of the casualities of a friendship and presented myself in a different way whenever he was around.
But obviously, I couldn't live in denial for long. During our conversations, I often used to drop hints which pointed towards the two of us being in a relationship. He politely brushed away the topic. I could share all my secrets with him, but I obviously couldn't let this one out. If I did so, our friendship could be at stake. Finally one day he broke the news to me. He had a girlfriend. I always knew that this day would arrive. After days of depression, I woke up to a new me. I accepted the facts. He may not have acknowledged my feelings but he never rejected them. We are still the same. Best friends. Forever.
' Sometimes a heart is too weak to afford to be Just Friends. '
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Did you ever fall for someone you know you shouldn't? Tried hard to fight your feelings, but you just couldn't?
The line between friendship and love is a very thin one. Very few people are able to distinguish it. Others blindly follow the path that their heart leads them to, without fearing the consequences. This often leads to unsuccessful relationships. Not to forget that it ruins the former friendship as well. Friendship can blossom into love, but this is an uncommon phenomenon. People fall for their friends and it's okkay. It is when people fall for their best friends that the pain starts. A best friend is someone you have to face daily. You share all your little secrets with this person. But you are afraid to let out the biggest secret. The Reason - You know he would never be able to love you back the same way. He loves you as a friend. And you can't let this little love go away from you. Your confession could prove disastrous to your friendship.
It often leaves you helpless. If the love is strictly one sided, it leaves you with two options. Option one, wait. Wait and keep on waiting for him to fall in love with you. Never give up hope. This is the best way to hurt yourself. The method is suicidal. Option two, instead of waiting for circumstances to force you to give up hope, summon all your courage at once and let go. Accept the reality. Treasure this special bond of friendship. You have had your share of grief. Who knows, You might have a bigger surprise waiting for you out there!
'It is better to be best friends forever than to be his girlfriend and break up, and then loose him all together. '
When I first met him, I had no idea that we would come this far. In the beginning, he was a mere acquaintence. But gradually we became friends, and ultimately, best friends. He seemed to stop there. But I involuntarily went upto the next stage, I fell for my best friend. But that wasn't completely my fault. He was so good to me always. He used to say all those sweet things to me. The immature love deprived teenager inside me took these as signs. I accepted that I loved him and at the same time, convinced myself that he loves me too. I started behaving in a different manner. I stepped out of the casualities of a friendship and presented myself in a different way whenever he was around.
But obviously, I couldn't live in denial for long. During our conversations, I often used to drop hints which pointed towards the two of us being in a relationship. He politely brushed away the topic. I could share all my secrets with him, but I obviously couldn't let this one out. If I did so, our friendship could be at stake. Finally one day he broke the news to me. He had a girlfriend. I always knew that this day would arrive. After days of depression, I woke up to a new me. I accepted the facts. He may not have acknowledged my feelings but he never rejected them. We are still the same. Best friends. Forever.
' Sometimes a heart is too weak to afford to be Just Friends. '
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Did you ever fall for someone you know you shouldn't? Tried hard to fight your feelings, but you just couldn't?
The line between friendship and love is a very thin one. Very few people are able to distinguish it. Others blindly follow the path that their heart leads them to, without fearing the consequences. This often leads to unsuccessful relationships. Not to forget that it ruins the former friendship as well. Friendship can blossom into love, but this is an uncommon phenomenon. People fall for their friends and it's okkay. It is when people fall for their best friends that the pain starts. A best friend is someone you have to face daily. You share all your little secrets with this person. But you are afraid to let out the biggest secret. The Reason - You know he would never be able to love you back the same way. He loves you as a friend. And you can't let this little love go away from you. Your confession could prove disastrous to your friendship.
It often leaves you helpless. If the love is strictly one sided, it leaves you with two options. Option one, wait. Wait and keep on waiting for him to fall in love with you. Never give up hope. This is the best way to hurt yourself. The method is suicidal. Option two, instead of waiting for circumstances to force you to give up hope, summon all your courage at once and let go. Accept the reality. Treasure this special bond of friendship. You have had your share of grief. Who knows, You might have a bigger surprise waiting for you out there!
'It is better to be best friends forever than to be his girlfriend and break up, and then loose him all together. '
